UK Singer Estelle Darlings did something the other day that confused,outraged,and made me and a unknown number of her fans decide to never support anything she does.What did she do you might ask?well while looking at one of my new favorite apps ”INSTAGRAM”,I came across a textagram that the singer posted on her page as a warning to the world.It read,”SOMEONE JUST CALLED ME NUBIAN AND I HATE LABELS…FREE YOURSELVES….At first sight of this it confused me so I investigated and  found out that on her page a fan was giving her props in the comments section by saying”My NUBIAN sista you are awesome…….and added a few more compliments to her post,and that pissed the singer off.On Estelle’s next photo she posted a textagram stating how vexed being called ”NUBIAN” had made her,and how people are never to call her that or face being called out and embarassed if you do.Now at first most people responded like I did by stating to her that maybe she misunderstood what the fan was saying and doing when she called her ”NUBIAN”,that the fan was just showing love and that the word NUBIAN as always had positive connotations and the true definition of the word describes a North African people and what kind of people they were.Thats when this thing got ”MESSY”,cuz the singer went on to respond saying she didnt care about the people or the meaning of the word and that she dont like being called it and that it labels her as something that she dont like and she dosent want to be look at as a African type of person period.Thats when it got even worse,because the way she kept responding,by never showing any care that she was rude and not caring how it made the fan who she wrote the textagram to feel or how it made any uf her fans feel.Matter of fact she kept responding with a ”im better and richer than you so go on bout your days darlings”statement.By the end of all her foolishness the majority of her fans that witnessed it said that they are no longer fans and will not support her.My feelings are qiuck and simple,she is very rude and has forgot where she comes from and her being a shorthaired darkskinned woman,WHAT DO YOU THINK OF HOW SHE HANDLED THE SITUATION?GO TO HER INSTAGRAM PAGE AND CHECKIT FOR YOURSELF……YOU WON’T BELIEVE WHAT YOU SEE TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!


Diary of a baby daddy part 5

In this post of the BABY DADDY DIARIES let’s explore when she intentionally try to hurt you using the kids as a pawn.What sucks most about this tactic is that the father has very little he can do about it when she does this to him.Now I know the first thing out of your mouth is gonna be for him to take her ass to court right?well if you havent read parts 1-4 then you have no idea what a GOOD DAD most likely will face when he attempts to get help from the courts. The first roadblock the man is gonna face is she has the state as her represenitive in the proceedings and they know how to squash the man like a bug in the courtroom because most of the time they are friends with the judge and eats lunch with them,go to functions together and see each other so much that its impossible for them to not have a conflict in interest and stay neutral in this,thats if they even wanted to stay neutral!.So right away before we get into court there are battles being lost by us and most of us dont even know about it.So in attempt to make things kind of fair at least as far as having legal help ,the Good Dad has to spend money on an attorney,and this is money that 9times out of 10 he cant afford anyway and if anything he could be taking care of the kids with this money but instead he puts himself in more of a financial hole to npay for his lawyer, Now with all these things against him the proceedings start and end,and 9times out of 10 he didnt get more visitation or full custody or whatever he faught for in his motion,and he goes right back to the problems he had before.She gets SECTION8,SSI DISABILTY,CHILD SUPPORT W2,FOODSTAMPS AND IN WISCONSIN CHILD SUPPLEMENT OR C-SUPP which is $250 a nmonth per child,all he has is a job that most times can barely pay rent and feed him after child support of up to 31%or more is taken from his checks or he will go to jail WITH THE QUICKNESS IN WISCONSIN! in my case even with all of these Govt. checks and subsidies like SECTION8 she gets evicted from her apartment in everywhere she has stayed and still has power to use the kids as pawns if I dont give her xtra money or do what she says,and the few times you fall behind she’s calling child support office asking them to lock me up and this has happen to me before.What did locking me up do?made me lose the job I had so now no payments can be made,lost my apartment so it made me jobless,and homeless,and put me in a bigger hole cuz i had to find a new job,apartment and basically start all over and to add insult to injury while being homeless,jobless etc.she had the nerve to ask for another warrant cuz i hadnt caught up fast enough,i mean HOW can a GOOD dad,one who paid support,loved his kids picked up his kids when she would let him,how does he find himself HOMELESS,JOBLESS,AND IN&OUT OF JAIL? Simple,the system is setup for him to exsist like this,yes exsist because that is definately not LIVING,and she sits back and loves every minute of it,Whats even worst is,the DEADBEAT dads are not going through this cuz most of the time she didnt even ask for support from him and its the same as a woman treating a RESPECTFUL,GOOD GUY like a punk,matter a fact thgey often call so-called good guys weak cuz he wont curse her out or whoop that ass,so he gets teated like a prostitute when it comes to the whole child support situation!     Now if you havent read any of the parts 1-4 then i should tell you this,Im speaking of a large %of women who act triffiling like this and live their lives as such,not the Good sistas out there that is a hard working single mom or even a single mom that may receive gov benifits cuz theyre not working at the time but they dont abuse the system and they are actually the ones who deserve help but usually end up with DEADBEAT DADS.Also im speaking of the Good brothas that are out there paying their support to the point of not being able to pay theyre rent or bills&even feed themselves, to those GOOD BROTHAS AND SISTAS Iam you so I feel you and salute you,amd this is a glimpse into the world of and its also a DIARY OF A BABY DADDY! GODBLESS

Love: Does Looks Still Matter?

Tionna Talks: Love, Lust, Biz & Life!

Dear Diary,

Yesterday my good actor friend, Jason Lanzar Rivera, visited me at my beautiful Boutique in Brooklyn (Loveys).


Jason is a fabulous actor. He has recently appeared in the movie, King of Paper Chasers. If you haven’t seen the movie yet, go and see it because it is really good.

Anywho, Jason is what we call a handsome man; ok a gorgeous man. He looks way better than he appears on television. I posted a pic of him and I on all of my social networking sites (Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram) and the response from women were crazyyyy. Seeing this response made me ask, does looks still matter to people? I know it did to a specific person I was trying to find a man for but damn, does it matter now?

Would you like a man based on his looks? Does a man looks what determines if you…

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